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Shape Up

Friday, April 16th, 2010

Every April, Vogue puts the focus of their magazine on the “celebration of size and silhouette,” and makes the emphasis of their articles on the female body in a more healthful, rather than just fashion-full, way. I was actually pleasantly surprised; perhaps because I was reading this at a time when my shape seems to be deteriorating despite increased efforts at improving it. While I don’t want to rehash the entire issue, there were 3 articles that stood out to me in a very positive light.

The first attracted my attention because in my desire to find a new solution to my weight-loss issues, I was becoming slightly dazzled by the miraculous promises of a number of fasts/detox diets/miracle pills. Now, being ordinarily a very sensible, logical person who doesn’t like to do “weird” things to my body, I was even surprising myself at the desperateness I was feeling. So this first article grounded me, and I haven’t been back to the flashy “Order now! Lose 30 pounds in 30 days or your money back!” sites. It is titled Coming Clean, and addresses the foolish claims of many of these miracle programs. (I have not checked the research on this article, so yes, I realize this may not be entirely accurate either, but it was still an encouraging thing to read!)

It focuses mostly on the detox/juice diets, and recognizes the truths in many of the claims, but also provides the whole story. For example, pointing out that our bodies were already designed to flush out toxins—through the liver—and any the body can’t rid itself of are not sitting around in the colon, waiting to be cleansed, but are stored in fatty tissues like the brain. Also, these diets tend to make you lose weight because you lose muscle, which will also slow your metabolism for when you do go back to eating. My favorite claim they combated, though, was the euphoria many say they experience. In some study, they discovered that the endorphin system in starving animals kicks in a feeling of euphoria to ease the trauma of imminent death. Nice, huh?

The next article that followed was one on how to (perhaps) lose those last five pounds (I’d like to know how to lose the ten I gained while trying to lose the last five!). Anyway, I really felt in touch with the author, who aptly summed up my food experience when she said, “My self-control around food is right up there with my ability to speak Mandarin.” So, apparently, the next “in” thing for portion control is not in the measurements, but in the mind. She interviewed a social psychologist by the name of Ronna Kabatznick, Ph.D., who is a leading advocate of mindful eating. She makes the focus of eating on how you feel about it. How hungry are you really? And why are you eating? Beyond being aware before beginning, you’re also supposed to be aware while you’re eating—aware of the sensations your food brings about. Eat slowly, and with purpose and acknowledgement of each bite.

Another interesting tidbit in the article is that a study found that yoga practicers have a lower BMI than regular walkers and gymgoers. Admittedly, there are still plenty of gymgoers that I’m sure do just fine (and don’t even get me started on the apparent ease in which men seem to shed pounds just by deciding to!), but in the crazy life of a (somewhat single) stay-at-home mother to young children, the gym is nowhere in my foreseeable future. Of course, I also read this article a month ago, and remember being aware of my first pb&j sandwich afterwards, but nothing else beyond that. I loved reading the author’s journey though: “I’m aware that I’m eating a whole Toblerone bar at 10:00 A.M., but down it goes. I’m aware that I’m looking for something other than sustenance in the refrigerator, but I eat some filet mignon anyway. The only difference: I feel guiltier now.” I think it’s even more difficult to be mindful around grunting, begging, needy children, too. I already only eat when I can squeeze it in between child duties, but the encouraging message in the article is to just keep trying. Each meal is a chance to start over, and the authors journey did eventually have a pleasing reward, so maybe it can work for others too!

The last article was also inspiring to me, because it was written by the blogging-spectacular Julie Powell. Vogue approached her with a proposition to get fit and write about it (which also begs the question—if someone were going to pay me to really, really work on getting fit, could I get there? We all have our motivators…). So she did! She, of course, interviewed and got to choose a personal trainer, and had no kids to get in the way of her schedule, but had her own issues with traveling for her book tour (oh, the travesty!). But the article was still really inspiring, because she did learn how to get into a routine, and found that the more she made it a priority, the more she wanted it as a priority. And her work paid off as well, and she was able to continue her routine after her time with the trainer had ended. I guess I feel more like her success can be my success just because despite her great fortune, I feel like she’s a normal person. I know we’re all normal people, but I’m not sure I feel like I could ever be Jennifer Aniston, but Julie Powell—she’s attainable. (And while you can’t read her article online, you can read this.)

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Encourage-me Sunday!

Sunday, March 14th, 2010

This week I’ll be short and sweet (and late—oops!). I’m proud that I managed to exercise every day this last week. I got to the point where I decided I either have to choose to do it or not, and I’ve been choosing to do it and actually following through. And I’m finding it both enjoyable and addicting. So . . . yea, me!

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Water and Weight Loss

Wednesday, February 17th, 2010

Ok. I am going to try to make this fairly succinct, as I promised myself I would be in bed by midnight, and I’ve already missed that mark, and really, really wanted to not fall too terribly behind on writing. So, my whole determination to even achieve 10 minutes of exercise three days a week hasn’t really been happening. Sure, I’ve had a few weeks where I’ve done even better than that, but since moving back to Nebraska, any of my good exercising has been outweighed by my obsessive late-night snacking (usually involving chocolate). I’m also getting really close to weaning III off of nursing, so I’m definitely not burning 500 calories a day on that anymore. The result: difficultly buttoning my jeans lately.

Arg. I’m having a hard time finding motivation, but I read a few things today that encouraged me. I am going to try to take a few of these new tips and put them into practice to hopefully make my jeans fit comfortably again!

First of all, let me say that I am not a dieter. I mean, I’m working on eating healthy, but counting calories or cutting out foods is just not my cup of tea. It makes me angry, and I don’t think that’s a healthy way to live. I certainly don’t want to over-indulge in fattening foods (which is what I’ve been doing lately), but I also don’t want to feel guilty over every little thing I eat.

(In case you want to read the whole article, you can find it here.) My first goal is to eat more salad. For those of you who know me well, you know I do not do this joyfully. I don’t hate salad; I just don’t really like it either. But, I found numerous articles supporting the benefit of eating a salad (with a light dressing) before your meal. Basically, because it fills you up a little at the beginning of the meal, you eat less. Studies show that people who eat soups or salads before a meal eat about 10-12 percent less calories throughout the day. So I’m shooting for at least twice a week on this one.

My second goal is to sleep more. I may complain about my kids waking up earlier than they’re “supposed” to, but I also wait a good 3 hours or more after they’re asleep to turn in myself. That’s why I was shooting for midnight tonight (now I’m going for 1!). I know I need sleep, but knowing that getting more could also help these unwanted pounds to go away really makes me want to get off the computer and go to bed! Here’s what the article had to say: “Insufficient shut-eye appears to increase production of the stress hormone cortisol, which regulates appetite. High levels seem to worsen bingeing and hunger; moreover, too little sleep could keep your body from burning carbohydrates, which translates to more stored body fat.” Ack! I certainly understand the stress and bingeing!

My third goal is to drink more water. I just forget. When I was pregnant with III the doctor basically told me that I could end up killing my baby by not inducing because my placenta was going to stop working, but if I made sure to drink lots of water that should keep my amniotic fluid level up which would help things. Well, I think she was wrong on the main bit, but I did make sure to drink lots of water anyway. I had multiple alarms set on my phone throughout the day reminding me to drink. Now I’m going to try to take care of my body for my sake, not just a baby’s. Being hydrated is really important—everyone agrees on this. One article said sometimes you get cravings for food merely because your body wants water and it’s telling you to get it however you can. So tonight when I got the munchies I poured a nice tall glass of water, and guess what? I drank, and no longer felt the desire to snack! One small victory today that I’m hoping to continue.

So there you have my three new goals. Sleeping, drinking, and leafy greens. Seems pretty obvious, huh? I will continue to try to make time for exercise, too, and I think just being well-rested will help me feel motivated for that as well. One good thing leads to another, right? (Oh, and if anyone wants to call me at a quarter to midnight and shame me into going to bed, that’s all right with me!)

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The E Word

Monday, November 2nd, 2009

I know for myself the E word comes up in conversation almost daily. It’s something new moms are pretty much always talking about: “I really need to exercise to get the rest of this baby weight off.” But new moms aren’t the only ones doing it. It’s everywhere. Men are going to the gyms, husbands are attempting a P90-x workout regimen, and around my town there are constantly runners on the sidewalks. And every time I see one, I feel a pang of guilt. I should be doing that.

My biggest problem is my all-or-nothing attitude, and maybe this is something other moms struggle with as well. I have a stack of great DVD exercise programs, pages printed off the internet of exercises, and a ton of old fitness magazines I saved “for reference.” Yet, other than about a 2 week period, they have all remained untouched. Any time I get started, something knocks me off my game. Usually it’s the old time factor. I recognize that exercise is important, but how many of us can really get those happy feelings out of exercising in a messy house? I know it’s hard for me. I would put the baby down for a nap, shove a pile of toys out of my way, and put in a video of hot people looking all happy about their exercise program. Nevermind the fact that they’re already in shape, and don’t even break a sweat. But they’re also in a nice big room, clear of toys and smelly dishes—oh, and 3-year-olds coming in every 2 minutes needing a drink, or an unreachable toy, or something.

For a few days I tried handing the kids off to the husband when he came home, but then everyone was typically cranky since he doesn’t come home until after 6 and they all had to wait on me to exercise and then make dinner, which ended up being around 8.  And that plan went out the window. So I just stopped. And went back to just talking about it. I need to exercise more. I should really do something active. I’m sure you know exactly what I’m talking about.

The last option, which I haven’t tried, is joining a gym. This choice is disturbing to me on a few counts. First, the money. Remember, I’m cheap. And to make the money spent on a gym worth it, I would have to be absolutely sure I would commit to going there every day. I know myself, and I’m not sure I would keep it up. Then there’s the fact that I would have to shave daily, as other people would actually be seeing me exercise. Sure, that’s more of a vanity thing, but I know I’m already going to feel terribly embarrassed about how out of shape I am; I don’t need to feel like everyone’s staring at my leg hair, wondering if it’s long enough to braid yet (ah, middle school all over again). Some days I barely find time to shower, so shaving is also a major commitment. Then there’s also the fact that gyms overwhelm me—I never know where to begin, and I feel like a dork just wandering around. This one’s a little easier to get over.

The last problem is at the same time a solution. What to do with the kids? Fortunately, the gyms here all seem to have little daycare centers, so essentially I’d be getting a really good deal on babysitting (I thought about getting the membership just to take uninterrupted showers, but then there’s that whole public bathroom thing . . . ). So that was a major plus for the gym option. But, they close between like 1 and 4, which would probably be about the time I got my stuff together to go; still, I could probably overcome that, too. And then I thought about the reason I don’t like the idea of daycares in the first place—germs. Yes, I am a germaphobe. And lately, Emma’s been getting sick after every little thing we go to. They can’t have super-high standards in a public gym’s daycare. H1N1, here we come!!

No, I cannot do it.

So I’m back to nothing. Might as well just sit around eating chocolate bemoaning my inability to make sacrifices for the sake of my own healthy well-being. Then I thought, Why does it have to be all or nothing? Why not be a little mediocre? So, I’m making a pact, a promise, a dedication—whatever you want to call it—to a little bit of exercise. If I were tech-savvy enough (and had more time!), I would make a little exercise tracker to put on the side of my blog, but instead I may just make one for my wall at home (eventually). Here’s the deal: 10 minutes of exercise, 4 days a week. That’s pretty mediocre, right? But it’s 40 minutes more than I’m doing now. Exercise is supposed to be good for you in all sorts of ways, including helping to tone down your stress levels, but if the idea of exercising stresses you out more than the payoff, then it’s just not worth it. Ten minutes four days a week does not stress me out. It’s not even a whole video. It’s a walk around the neighborhood. It’s a workout short enough that I wouldn’t feel guilty just leaving my kid in his crib and turning the music up really loudly. It’s not long enough to make me feel super guilty about not using the time for cleaning. It’s something to get me started.

And it’s free. ;)

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