Posts Tagged ‘healthy living’

Shape Up

Friday, April 16th, 2010

Every April, Vogue puts the focus of their magazine on the “celebration of size and silhouette,” and makes the emphasis of their articles on the female body in a more healthful, rather than just fashion-full, way. I was actually pleasantly surprised; perhaps because I was reading this at a time when my shape seems to be deteriorating despite increased efforts at improving it. While I don’t want to rehash the entire issue, there were 3 articles that stood out to me in a very positive light.

The first attracted my attention because in my desire to find a new solution to my weight-loss issues, I was becoming slightly dazzled by the miraculous promises of a number of fasts/detox diets/miracle pills. Now, being ordinarily a very sensible, logical person who doesn’t like to do “weird” things to my body, I was even surprising myself at the desperateness I was feeling. So this first article grounded me, and I haven’t been back to the flashy “Order now! Lose 30 pounds in 30 days or your money back!” sites. It is titled Coming Clean, and addresses the foolish claims of many of these miracle programs. (I have not checked the research on this article, so yes, I realize this may not be entirely accurate either, but it was still an encouraging thing to read!)

It focuses mostly on the detox/juice diets, and recognizes the truths in many of the claims, but also provides the whole story. For example, pointing out that our bodies were already designed to flush out toxins—through the liver—and any the body can’t rid itself of are not sitting around in the colon, waiting to be cleansed, but are stored in fatty tissues like the brain. Also, these diets tend to make you lose weight because you lose muscle, which will also slow your metabolism for when you do go back to eating. My favorite claim they combated, though, was the euphoria many say they experience. In some study, they discovered that the endorphin system in starving animals kicks in a feeling of euphoria to ease the trauma of imminent death. Nice, huh?

The next article that followed was one on how to (perhaps) lose those last five pounds (I’d like to know how to lose the ten I gained while trying to lose the last five!). Anyway, I really felt in touch with the author, who aptly summed up my food experience when she said, “My self-control around food is right up there with my ability to speak Mandarin.” So, apparently, the next “in” thing for portion control is not in the measurements, but in the mind. She interviewed a social psychologist by the name of Ronna Kabatznick, Ph.D., who is a leading advocate of mindful eating. She makes the focus of eating on how you feel about it. How hungry are you really? And why are you eating? Beyond being aware before beginning, you’re also supposed to be aware while you’re eating—aware of the sensations your food brings about. Eat slowly, and with purpose and acknowledgement of each bite.

Another interesting tidbit in the article is that a study found that yoga practicers have a lower BMI than regular walkers and gymgoers. Admittedly, there are still plenty of gymgoers that I’m sure do just fine (and don’t even get me started on the apparent ease in which men seem to shed pounds just by deciding to!), but in the crazy life of a (somewhat single) stay-at-home mother to young children, the gym is nowhere in my foreseeable future. Of course, I also read this article a month ago, and remember being aware of my first pb&j sandwich afterwards, but nothing else beyond that. I loved reading the author’s journey though: “I’m aware that I’m eating a whole Toblerone bar at 10:00 A.M., but down it goes. I’m aware that I’m looking for something other than sustenance in the refrigerator, but I eat some filet mignon anyway. The only difference: I feel guiltier now.” I think it’s even more difficult to be mindful around grunting, begging, needy children, too. I already only eat when I can squeeze it in between child duties, but the encouraging message in the article is to just keep trying. Each meal is a chance to start over, and the authors journey did eventually have a pleasing reward, so maybe it can work for others too!

The last article was also inspiring to me, because it was written by the blogging-spectacular Julie Powell. Vogue approached her with a proposition to get fit and write about it (which also begs the question—if someone were going to pay me to really, really work on getting fit, could I get there? We all have our motivators…). So she did! She, of course, interviewed and got to choose a personal trainer, and had no kids to get in the way of her schedule, but had her own issues with traveling for her book tour (oh, the travesty!). But the article was still really inspiring, because she did learn how to get into a routine, and found that the more she made it a priority, the more she wanted it as a priority. And her work paid off as well, and she was able to continue her routine after her time with the trainer had ended. I guess I feel more like her success can be my success just because despite her great fortune, I feel like she’s a normal person. I know we’re all normal people, but I’m not sure I feel like I could ever be Jennifer Aniston, but Julie Powell—she’s attainable. (And while you can’t read her article online, you can read this.)

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Numbers In My Face

Monday, March 15th, 2010

Around town there is currently a health challenge underway. Spurred by the popularity of The Biggest Loser, teams from businesses all around town were created and are competing to lose the most and earn $1000 (although I did the math and there are like 70+ teams who all put in $40 I think . . . so where does the rest of the money go??). Of course, it’s  not all about money, it’s about living a healthier lifestyle, and this is just a motivator to get started.

I know a number of people involved in the challenge, and they all have their methods (some working better than others), but one conversation I just keep hearing is about counting calories. On top of that, I was actually playing The Biggest Loser Wii game, and it has a spot to input your daily calorie intake. It also suggests how much you should be consuming.

In my desire to get more fit I thought I’d give the calorie counting a try; after all, it has been working for those using that method. How hard could it be? Breakfast was fairly easy; I pretty much always eat a bowl of cereal with milk, and I could easily measure how much to eat according to the serving size. And for the rest of my day I found a website that has a list of common foods and their calories, so I would just look up whatever I ate and input it.

I lasted for about 2 1/2 days. Then I cracked. I found myself hating myself for every little thing I ate; and being the perfectionist that I am, I was also pretty sure that some of the foods I entered were inaccurate due to my not really knowing how many ounces I ate, or not being able to find exactly what I ate. And what about things like homemade bread? I had some Amish Friendship bread that I had mixed with whole wheat flour and pumpkin, and—no surprise—it wasn’t on the list.

And the more I saw how many calories I was eating, the more I wanted to eat. I know, that doesn’t really make sense. But it sort of angered/depressed me at how much I was consuming, and as I am a stress eater, I just binged on more. And when I tried exercising control and limiting what I was eating, I was simply ravenous! My stomach would be grumbling and eating was ALL I COULD THINK ABOUT.

This made me cranky. Feeling hungry and angry at what I felt I couldn’t  eat left me very snappy. And I don’t want to be like that. I think for my perfectionist personality counting calories is not the way to go. I get too obsessive and eating is no longer a good experience; eating should be a good experience. I like food. I love cooking new things. And I don’t think there’s anything wrong with that.

Calories aside, moderation is still a wise decision. But I know how much I eat. And I know when I’m eating something unhealthy. And once I gave up the counting, I found I could cut back without knowing exactly the value of what I was cutting back. But I know throwing away the rest of that birthday cake that I was still working on was a good idea. I wasn’t angry anymore at the idea of not eating something. I will continue to make some wise eating decisions, and some foolish ones, but without thinking about all those numbers. And when I eat those Girl Scout cookies in my pantry I’ll be ok with it; might just add a few more jumping jacks to my day.

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Water and Weight Loss

Wednesday, February 17th, 2010

Ok. I am going to try to make this fairly succinct, as I promised myself I would be in bed by midnight, and I’ve already missed that mark, and really, really wanted to not fall too terribly behind on writing. So, my whole determination to even achieve 10 minutes of exercise three days a week hasn’t really been happening. Sure, I’ve had a few weeks where I’ve done even better than that, but since moving back to Nebraska, any of my good exercising has been outweighed by my obsessive late-night snacking (usually involving chocolate). I’m also getting really close to weaning III off of nursing, so I’m definitely not burning 500 calories a day on that anymore. The result: difficultly buttoning my jeans lately.

Arg. I’m having a hard time finding motivation, but I read a few things today that encouraged me. I am going to try to take a few of these new tips and put them into practice to hopefully make my jeans fit comfortably again!

First of all, let me say that I am not a dieter. I mean, I’m working on eating healthy, but counting calories or cutting out foods is just not my cup of tea. It makes me angry, and I don’t think that’s a healthy way to live. I certainly don’t want to over-indulge in fattening foods (which is what I’ve been doing lately), but I also don’t want to feel guilty over every little thing I eat.

(In case you want to read the whole article, you can find it here.) My first goal is to eat more salad. For those of you who know me well, you know I do not do this joyfully. I don’t hate salad; I just don’t really like it either. But, I found numerous articles supporting the benefit of eating a salad (with a light dressing) before your meal. Basically, because it fills you up a little at the beginning of the meal, you eat less. Studies show that people who eat soups or salads before a meal eat about 10-12 percent less calories throughout the day. So I’m shooting for at least twice a week on this one.

My second goal is to sleep more. I may complain about my kids waking up earlier than they’re “supposed” to, but I also wait a good 3 hours or more after they’re asleep to turn in myself. That’s why I was shooting for midnight tonight (now I’m going for 1!). I know I need sleep, but knowing that getting more could also help these unwanted pounds to go away really makes me want to get off the computer and go to bed! Here’s what the article had to say: “Insufficient shut-eye appears to increase production of the stress hormone cortisol, which regulates appetite. High levels seem to worsen bingeing and hunger; moreover, too little sleep could keep your body from burning carbohydrates, which translates to more stored body fat.” Ack! I certainly understand the stress and bingeing!

My third goal is to drink more water. I just forget. When I was pregnant with III the doctor basically told me that I could end up killing my baby by not inducing because my placenta was going to stop working, but if I made sure to drink lots of water that should keep my amniotic fluid level up which would help things. Well, I think she was wrong on the main bit, but I did make sure to drink lots of water anyway. I had multiple alarms set on my phone throughout the day reminding me to drink. Now I’m going to try to take care of my body for my sake, not just a baby’s. Being hydrated is really important—everyone agrees on this. One article said sometimes you get cravings for food merely because your body wants water and it’s telling you to get it however you can. So tonight when I got the munchies I poured a nice tall glass of water, and guess what? I drank, and no longer felt the desire to snack! One small victory today that I’m hoping to continue.

So there you have my three new goals. Sleeping, drinking, and leafy greens. Seems pretty obvious, huh? I will continue to try to make time for exercise, too, and I think just being well-rested will help me feel motivated for that as well. One good thing leads to another, right? (Oh, and if anyone wants to call me at a quarter to midnight and shame me into going to bed, that’s all right with me!)

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